Monday, 23 April 2007

Thanks, sorry etc.

Got this idea from a friend, and think it's a pretty good one really: basicly say what you want to tell someone, but don't be name specific - they'll probably never read it, but it's a good 'cleansing' practise. I'm speaking to people who are (more-or-less) out of my life now.

1. I'm sorry you couldn't come with us and achieve your potential. I know you got scared, afraid of being abandoned and I should have been more suportive, but you had to want to move on, and you didn't. I hope you will eventually. Have a nice life darling.

2. I'm sorry I never kept in contact; we were good friends I think but we both got so caught up in the new that we drifted apart. I might work up the courage to call you one day.

3. You made my life a misery for years: we made up, but you know what?: I never really forgave you and I still can't bring myself to think well of you - I'm glad we're out of one another's lives.

4. Yeah, you knew all about it, I know that for a fact. It's pretty ammusing in retrospect, don't you think?

5. Sorry, we didn't really know eachother it would seem, but I'm still sorry that we didn't keep in touch. Thanks for your past kindnesses, and I hope you're doing well.

6. I wasn't really in a position to do what I did, and I'm sorry if you got the wrong impression - it wasn't meant that way - I was just afraid, so I messed you around without intending to.

7. You're a lovely person, and I hope we keep in contact after having not talked for so long. I admire you for you're strength throughout the troubled times - you coped where others couldn't have.

8. We were an odd bunch, and I can't work out what it was that brought us together but I'm glad it did - I doubt I could have coped without you, and without you I would never have learned that I like cigars ;)

9. It was what it was.

10. I forgive you all for your actions, but I won't forget. I hope you've changed.

11. I still think about you, and hope that I make you proud. xxx
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12. Thanks for making life a bit more interesting, and for ignoring the idiots :)

13. I'll come back one day if you're still around - we'll chat then (and I'll get the icecream this time)

14. Thanks for so much - I'd be a completely differant person if it weren't for you. I hope you've read 'Persuasion' by now!

15. I think you made the wrong decision, and I respect you less for it i'm afraid - things change and I can't help but think that our friendship is much the worse off for it.

16. I'm glad that you're doing well but I wish you weren't so far away! Keep well sweetie x

17. It's incredible how alike we are, it's just a shame we met in passing - I hope we meet again soon.

That's all I can be bothered with for now.

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